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Family Reunion Committee Roles

Eight core committee roles with specific responsibilities for each. How to recruit committee members, how to run meetings, when each role is busiest, and how Reunly helps coordinate across your whole committee.

The 8 Core Committee Roles

For a small reunion (under 50 guests), one person can cover 2–3 of these roles. For 50–150 guests, aim for at least 4–5 distinct people. For 150+ guests, fill all 8 roles if possible.

1

Lead Organizer / Chair

Busiest: All phases — especially 6 months out and event day

  • Owns the overall reunion vision, budget, and timeline
  • Makes final decisions when committee members disagree
  • Serves as the primary point of contact for family members' questions
  • Facilitates all committee meetings and tracks action items
  • Coordinates with the venue, caterer, and all vendors
  • Emcees or assigns an emcee for the event day program
  • Sends the save-the-date and formal invitations
  • Manages the final day-of timeline and troubleshoots problems

Ideal person: Your most organized family member who is also well-respected and has time to commit

2

Treasurer / Financial Chair

Busiest: Collection phase (4–6 months out) and event week

  • Creates and maintains the reunion budget
  • Opens a dedicated payment collection method (Venmo, Zelle, etc.)
  • Tracks all incoming payments and follows up with non-payers
  • Pays venue deposits, vendor invoices, and other expenses
  • Maintains a running balance sheet and reports to the committee monthly
  • Manages fundraising income (t-shirts, raffle, etc.)
  • Handles refunds if needed and settles accounts after the event
  • Provides final financial summary to the family after the reunion

Ideal person: Someone detail-oriented and trustworthy — often a family member with a finance or accounting background

3

Communications Chair

Busiest: All phases — heaviest 3 months out and event week

  • Maintains the master contact list for all family members
  • Sends save-the-dates, formal invitations, and reminder messages
  • Manages any family group chat, email list, or social media group
  • Collects RSVPs (often working alongside the treasurer for payment tracking)
  • Sends logistics reminders 2 weeks and 1 week before the event
  • Manages the post-reunion follow-up: thank-you messages, photo sharing, feedback survey
  • Reaches out to family branches who haven't responded

Ideal person: Your most social family member — someone who knows everyone and isn't afraid to follow up

4

Food Chair

Busiest: 3–6 months out (planning) and event day

  • Researches and books the caterer, or organizes the potluck assignments
  • Collects and organizes dietary restrictions from the guest list
  • Builds the menu and confirms quantities based on confirmed headcount
  • Manages food delivery logistics on event day
  • Coordinates setup of food tables, serving equipment, and labels
  • Ensures food safety compliance (temperature, time limits, allergy separation)
  • Handles cleanup and leftover distribution after the meal

Ideal person: Your food-obsessed family member — the one who always brings the best dish to every gathering

5

Activities Chair

Busiest: 2–4 months out (planning) and event day

  • Plans and organizes all games, icebreakers, and structured activities
  • Purchases or assembles all activity supplies
  • Creates the awards ceremony program (if applicable)
  • Leads or facilitates activities on event day
  • Coordinates children's activities and supervises child-focused programming
  • Plans the entertainment schedule (music, slideshow, speeches)
  • Sets up activity areas before guests arrive

Ideal person: Your most fun-loving, outgoing family member — someone who naturally brings energy to the room

6

Venue Chair

Busiest: 6–9 months out (booking) and event day

  • Researches and visits venue options
  • Handles venue booking, deposit, and contract
  • Coordinates all venue logistics: tables, chairs, tents, A/V
  • Manages vendor relationships (caterer, rental company, photographer)
  • Handles the venue walkthrough 2 weeks before the event
  • Arrives earliest on event day to manage setup
  • Oversees cleanup and venue checkout at the end of the event

Ideal person: Someone detail-oriented who is also good at negotiating and following up with vendors

7

Registration Chair

Busiest: 4–6 months out (collection) and event day

  • Creates and manages the registration form (Google Forms, Eventbrite, or Reunly)
  • Tracks RSVPs and reports confirmed headcount to the committee
  • Manages check-in table on event day
  • Creates and distributes name tags
  • Prepares and distributes welcome packets (schedule, map, activities info)
  • Handles t-shirt and merchandise distribution at the event
  • Maintains the guest contact database and updates it throughout planning

Ideal person: Your most organized family member — ideally someone with administrative or event experience

8

Photographer / Memory Chair

Busiest: 2 months out (planning) and event day

  • Hires and coordinates with a professional photographer, or serves in this role personally
  • Creates the must-have shot list (group photos, generation groups, candids)
  • Sets up and manages the photo booth if applicable
  • Coordinates and announces the group photo timing
  • Creates a shared photo album and shares the link with all guests
  • Collects photos from family members after the event
  • Manages the memory book or slideshow project (if applicable)

Ideal person: Your most visually creative family member, or anyone with photography interest and a good camera

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When Each Role Is Busiest

Use this timeline to set expectations with committee members about when their workload will peak.

9–12 months out

Lead Organizer (date/venue decision), Treasurer (initial budget), Venue Chair (venue research and booking)

6–8 months out

Communications Chair (save-the-dates), Registration Chair (registration form setup), Treasurer (fundraising launch — t-shirts, raffle)

3–5 months out

Food Chair (caterer booking, potluck assignments), Activities Chair (activity planning), Communications Chair (formal invitations)

6–8 weeks out

Registration Chair (RSVP follow-ups), Treasurer (payment follow-ups), Venue Chair (vendor confirmations), Memory Chair (photo collection, slideshow)

2 weeks out

All roles (final confirmations), Lead Organizer (logistics reminder to family), Food Chair (caterer headcount confirmation)

Event day

Lead Organizer (overall coordination), Food Chair (meal setup/service), Activities Chair (program facilitation), Registration Chair (check-in), Memory Chair (photography), Venue Chair (setup/teardown)

Post-event

Treasurer (financial summary), Memory Chair (photo sharing, memory book), Communications Chair (thank-you messages, feedback survey), Lead Organizer (next year planning kickoff)

How to Recruit Committee Members

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Frequently Asked Questions

How many people should be on a family reunion committee?

For a reunion of 50–100 guests, a committee of 4–6 people is ideal — large enough to distribute work, small enough to make decisions efficiently. For 100–200+ guests, 6–10 committee members is more appropriate. Avoid committees of more than 10 — decision-making slows dramatically and accountability diffuses. Every committee member should have a specific role with defined responsibilities, not a generic 'helper' title.

Who should organize a family reunion?

The lead organizer should be someone who is organized, reliable, and respected by the family — but who also has the time to commit. This is often the family's natural 'administrator': the person who tracks birthdays, sends group emails, and remembers everyone's kids' names. It doesn't have to be the eldest or most prominent family member. The best organizer is whoever is most willing and capable, regardless of age or position in the family hierarchy.

How do you delegate family reunion planning tasks?

Assign specific, bounded tasks rather than vague roles. Instead of 'help with food,' give someone 'you're responsible for confirming the caterer headcount by June 1, collecting dietary restrictions from the guest list, and setting up the food tables on the day.' The more specific the assignment, the more reliably it gets done. Use a shared document or project management tool so everyone can see what's been done and what's outstanding. Hold brief check-in calls monthly and increase frequency to biweekly in the final 6 weeks.

How do you run a family reunion planning committee meeting?

Keep meetings to 60 minutes or less and always have a written agenda sent 24 hours before. Start with a 5-minute status update from each committee member. Spend most of the meeting on decisions that require group input — not updates that can be sent by email. Assign owners and deadlines to every action item before ending the meeting. For virtual meetings, use Zoom or Google Meet with video on — it's much more effective than phone-only for this type of collaborative planning.

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